Children of Robert Foster and Maria Spence

01. Alwyn Foster Spence

1884-06-08 b. Cramlington, Northumberland GRO index; censuses; Royal Naval Reserve Service records index
1891 living at Backworth Cottage, Backworth, Northumberland, with his family, a governess, a nursemaid, a cook, and his visiting aunt Mary E. Spence TNA: RG 12/4234 f68 p4
1894/1899 at Ackworth School, Yorkshire Edgar Barron Collinson (1931) List of the Boys and Girls Admitted into Ackworth School from . . . 1879 to the end of 1930. Ackworth
1901 living at Backworth Lodge, Backworth, with his parents, a cook, and a housemaid RG 13/4810 f47 p9
1901-07-24 among the mourners at the funeral of John Foster Spence, at Preston Cemetery, Tynemouth Shields Daily Gazette, 1901-07-25
from 1908 with Royal Naval Reserve Royal Naval Reserve Service records index; Sheffield Daily Telegraph, 1915-03-27
1911 engineer, seagoing engineer, worker, living in 11 rooms at Backworth, Newcastle-on-Tyne, Northumberland, with his parents, two servants, and a visitor RG 14/30796 RD559 ED2 SN23
1914/1915 engineer-lieutenant, HMS Argyll AOSA Annual Report 34, 1915
1915-02-24 appointed engineer lieutenant for temporary service Royal Naval Officers' Service records index
1915-10-12 engineer, of Backworth Lodge, Newcastle-on-Tyne; m. Edith Stonier Brockbank (1887 – after 1949, of Green Bank, Flixton, b. Barton RD, d. of James Brockbank, insurance under-writer), at St Michael's pc, Flixton, Lancashire, by licence parish register; GRO index; National Probate Calendar; AOSA Annual Report 35, 1916
Children: Dorothy Foster (1916 – ?), John Foster (1919–1978), both b. Barton RD; Robert Brockbank (1921 – after 1950), and Silvia Brockbank (1923–2006), both b. Hexham RD GRO index; United States marriages
1916-07-27 engineer-lieutenant, of Backworth; daughter b. at the Green Back, Flixton, Manchester, Lancashire Newcastle Journal, 1916-07-28
1914/1920 engineer lieutenant, R.N.; awarded 1914-15 Star, Victory & British War medals Royal Navy Officers, Medal Roll
1921 commercial traveller, colliery stores, employed by John O. Scott & Co., colliery store merchants, working at St Nicholas Chas., Newcastle-on-Tyne; living with his family and two domestic servants in 7 rooms at Kenton House, Hexham, Northumberland, with two Stonier women [probably his sisters-in-law] as visitors RG 15/25624 RD561 SD2 ED16 SN372
1932-09-19 among the principal mourners at his father's funeral at Preston Cemetery Shields Daily News, 1932-09-20
1938/1939 living with his wife at 27 Fern Avenue, Newcastle upon Tyne electoral registers
1939-09-29 agent – Nobels Explosives Co., living with his wife at 27 Fern Avenue, Newcastle upon Tyne 1939 England and Wales Register (RG 101)
1944-06-03 with his wife, of 27 Fern Avenue, Jesmond Newcastle Journal
1944-09-02 Yorkshire Post and Leeds Intelligencer, 1944-09-06
1948-06-30 of 27 Fern-avenue, Newcastle-upon-Tyne; d. Newcastle upon Tyne RD GRO index; National Probate Calendar
1949-01-18 will proved at Newcastle-upon-Tyne by Edith Stonier Spence, widow; effects £7531 6s. 4d. National Probate Calendar


02. Erica Spence

1885-06-23 b. West Cramlington, Northumberland GRO index; censuses; Morpeth Herald, 1885-06-27
1891 living at Backworth Cottage, Backworth, Northumberland, with her family, a governess, a nursemaid, a cook, and her visiting aunt Mary E. Spence TNA: RG 12/4234 f68 p4
1896/1900 of Newcastle-upon-Tyne; at Ackworth School Edgar Barron Collinson (1931) List of the Boys and Girls Admitted into Ackworth School from . . . 1879 to the end of 1930. Ackworth
1901 pupil, one of 16 such at 36 Montpelier Crescent, Brighton, Sussex RG 13/929 f56 p10
1909-07-07 m.1. Stanley Redfern (1883–1927, b. Urmston, Lancashire, s. of Samuel Jones and Maria Jane (Barringer) Redfern), at Pilgrim Street fmh, Newcastle-upon-Tyne GRO index; Edward H. Milligan (2007) Biographical Dictionary of British Quakers in Commerce and Industry 1775–1920. York: Sessions Book Trust; GRO index

MARRIAGE OF MISS SPENCE, BACKWORTH.

Much local interest was associated with a wedding which was solemnised at the Friends' Meeting House, Pilgrim Street, Newcastle, on Wednesday. Miss Erica Spence, only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. R.F. Spence, of Backworth Lodge, Backworth, was the bride, and Mr. Stanley Redfern, third son of Mr. and Mrs. S.J. Redfern, of Manor Croft, Urmston, Manchester, the bridegroom. Outside the quaint, old-fashioned meeting-house a large crowd gathered. The bride, who entered the building with her father, was robed in ivory satin, and wore a spray of white heather and a tulle veil. She carried a bouquet of white heather and other white flowers, and her only ornament was a diamond pendant, the gift of the officials and workmen of Backworth Colliery. Miss Dorothy Clephan and Miss Hilda Tweedie, cousins of the bride, the bridesmaids, wore pink œlienne Empire dresses and crinoline hats wreathed with pink roses. They carried bouquets of pink roses and bell heather, and wore Liberty pearl pendants, the gift of the bridegroom. Mr. Hugh Redfern was best man.

There was a large gathering of relatives and friends in the meeting-house, where the bride and bridegroom were married according to the custom of the Society of Friends. The bridegroom stood up and said: "In the fear of the Lord, and in the presence of this assembly, I take this, my friend, Erica Spence, to be my wedded wife," and the bride followed with a similar declaration, after which the members of the congregation signed their names as witnesses of the marriage. A reception was given by Mr. and Mrs. R.F. Spence, at the Station Hotel, after the ceremony, and later the bride and bridegroom left for the South for their honeymoon. The bride's travelling dress was of white cloth, braided, and with it she wore a black picture hat, trimmed with pink roses.

A triumphal arch, bearing the motto "Good luck to our Bride," beneath which Miss Spence passed as she drove from her home, was erected at Backworth Lodge by the Backworth colliery officials and workmen, and the drive, festooned with flags, was lined by the village folk, who gave her a hearty send off.


INTERESTING PRESENTATION TO MISS SPENCE.

On Saturday night last an interesting gathering was held in the Backworth Institute Hall, the occasion being the presentation of several valuable presents to Miss E. Spence, only daughter of County Councillor R.F. Spence, J.P., agent for the Backworth Collieries, on her marriage (which was celebrated on Wednesday) to Mr. Stanley Redfern of Manchester. The presentations, which were the result of a testimonial subscribed for by the officials, workmen, and friends, and which realised well over £100, consisted of an elegant grandfather's clock with Westminster chimes, silver tea and coffee service of beautiful design, silver tray and silver spirit lamp, together with a superb diamond pendant. The hall had been specially decorated by Mr. T. Whitfield. On the platform, which was arrayed with a fine selection of hot-house flowers, was a representative gathering of members of the committee, their wives, and personal friends, while the body of the hall was full. The gathering was presided over by Mr. William Murton, under-manager at the Backworth Maude Pit.

At the outset Mr Murton referred to the large gathering that evening, and said it was a pleasure and gratification to all concerned to see by their presence the respect and esteem in which their agent and his family were held. Backworth was an old colliery village—much older than they were. They had experienced their ups and downs, their joys and sorrows, but they would know that when things didn't go to the dip they always went to the rise. It was the first time in their history to have their master and family at so unique a ceremony on the eve of a daughter's marriage, and local historians might duly record the fact. Their agent, Mr. Spence, whom they were duly honouring on such an occasion, had been amongst them from his start in life. He was native to the district and to the manner born, and as the Yankees say, "He was raised right here." So intimate were their relations that they often forgot to address him as they ought to do so. Everyone, however, who knew the captain of their ship admired his high business capacity, his ceaseless enterprise, and unbounded generosity. In those matters he was largely helped by a good wife, who was ever at his elbow, sage in experience and helpful in advice. Mrs. Spence stood for all that was good, true and beautiful in life, without which life would be a burden. She had been and was an active and willing supporter with Mr. Spence in all his good work. Miss Spence bore an honoured name which she was going to change, and he trusted that in her future home-life she would carry all associated with the name she now bore in the hearts and minds of the people of Backworth. He had very great pleasure in calling upon Mr. Barrow to make the presentation on behalf of the subscribers.

Councillor Barrow said he deemed it a great honour and pleasure to take part in the proceedings. On such a unique occasion they were making history. It was the first time an only daughter of an agent of their collieries had been married during her father's tenure of office. It had been a great pleasure on the part of the committee to recognise the outward and visible signs of the esteem and honour in which Mr. Spence and his family were held by the public. Mr. Barrow then put before the audience the beautiful ideal of domestic happiness as conveyed in Lord Tennyson's verse: "How if I love," after which, on behalf of the officials, workmen and friends, in felicitous terms, he made the presentation to Miss Spence, trusting that in gratification of their wish she would wear the diamond pendant on her wedding day, and that as the gems adorned her they would be enhanced the more in value by the knowledge of their good wishes for her happiness. He sincerely hoped that time would but touch her gently and the years but multiply the golden gifts of health, happiness and abundant prosperity. He had the greatest pleasure in making the presentation.

In response Miss Spence spoke in very feeling terms of their great kindness. She had some idea of what was going to happen, because when the committee came to their house she was always bundled out of the room. Yet she had no idea of anything so beautiful being presented to her. She thanked them very sincerely for their gifts.

Mr. Spence also feelingly responded.

Votes of thanks were afterwards tendered to the Chairman and Mr. Barrow by Messrs. Henderson Gibson (manager), Councillor W.L. Thompson, Thomas Ramsay (traffic manager), and Mr. A.D. Jennings.

The following interesting programme was much appreciated by the audience:—Northumberland Small Pipes and violin selection, "Ye Banks and Braes," Mr Richard Mowat and Master Mowat; song, "The Yeoman's Wedding," County Councillor A.E. Bell, J.P., Earsdon; song, "Swallows," Miss Gladys Jennings; song, "Love me and the world is mine, " Mr. John W. Stoker, Seaton Delaval; Northumberland Small Pipes (encored), Mr. Richard Mowat; song, "Gee up, Dobbin," and encore, "Bobby Dear," Mr. Bell; song, "Goodbye," Miss Gladys Jennings; song, "My Pretty Jane," Mr. Stoker. Mr. John G. Watson was accompanist.

Mr. Bell replied to a vote of thanks to the artistes, and the proceedings wound up with the singing of Auld Lang Syne.

Morpeth Herald, 1909-07-10
Children: Foster (1911–1998), b. Handsworth, Staffordshire; Cecily (1914–2000), and Peter (1918–2001), both b. Edgbaston, Birmingham GRO index
1911 living in 7 rooms at 55 Lansdowne Rd, Handsworth, Staffordshire, with her husband and baby son, her mother-in-law, a servant, and a trained nurse RG14PN17220 RG78PN1059 RD371 SD1 ED15 SN261
1914-04-21 daughter b. Edgbaston, Birmingham Newcastle Journal, 1914-04-24
1921 home duties; living with her family and a general domestic servant in 9 rooms at Erleigh[, ] Herschel Park, Slough, Berkshire RG 15/07315 RD144 SD1 ED30 SN299
1927-08-09 husband of Kirkland, Sidcot, near Winscombe, Somerset, at the date of his death National Probate Calendar
1927-11-12 co-executor of her husband's will
1928-05-22 m.2. David Burlingham Grubb (1878–1964, b. Handsworth, s. of John and Madeline (Kenway) Grubb), at Sidcot fmh GRO index; Ackworth Old Scholars' Association Report no. 47, 1928; Milligan (2007)
1929-11-11 at Axbridge Petty Sessions:

Mrs. Erica Grubb, Winscombe, was summoned for a like offence.

P.C. Morris said he saw Miss Grubb driving a car on Shute Shelf. He asked her for her licence and Miss Grubb searched the car and said it must have dropped down by the door, but that she would have the door taken off. On a later date she said she had been unable to find it.—Fined 15s.

Wells Journal, 1929-11-15
1932-09-19 among the principal mourners at her father's funeral at Preston Cemetery Shields Daily News, 1932-09-20
1934-08-03 of Winscombe; with her husband, present at the funeral of John Morland, at Street Friends' Meeting House, Somerset Western Daily Press, 1934-08-04
1937-05-22 wedding of her step-daughter Elizabeth Adney Grubb, at Shipham, near Winscombe; reception held at the bride's home at Wintrath Western Daily Press, 1937-05-24
1938-05-02 had presided at the monthly meeting of Shipham and Rowberrow Women's Institute, at Shipham Western Daily Press
1938-07-08 president of the Shipham and Rowberrow Women's Institute Western Daily Press
1939-09-02 wedding of her daughter Cecily at Sidcot Friends' Meeting House; reception at Wintrath, Winscombe Western Daily Press, 1939-09-04
1939-09-29 unpaid domestic duties, living with her husband and four schoolchildren, apparently unrelated 1939 England and Wales Register (RG 101)
1940-08-03 at the July meeting of the Winscombe WI, had won a prize for a bottle of raspberries Western Daily Press
1944-03-19 husband of Wintrath Winscombe Western Gazette, 1944-05-19
1949-05-14 husband of Winscombe Western Gazette, 1949-06-17
1956-02-18 administrator of the estate of her brother Ronald National Probate Calendar
1964-07-31 husband of Wintrath, Winscombe, at the date of his death National Probate Calendar
1980-03-17 of Tower House, 15 Montpelier, Weston Super Mare, Avon; d. Weston-super-Mare RD GRO index; National Probate Calendar
1980-07-25 will proved at Bristol; £37849 National Probate Calendar


03. Ronald Spence

1886 Q4 b. Cramlington, Northumberland GRO index; censuses
1891 living at Backworth Cottage, Backworth, Northumberland, with his family, a governess, a nursemaid, a cook, and his visiting aunt Mary E. Spence TNA: RG 12/4234 f68 p4
1901 scholar, of the Scottish National Institution, Larbert, Stirlingshire, Scotland 1901 Scotland census
  the Royal Scottish National Institution was "the foremost hospital providing custodial care for mentally impaired children in Scotland in the 19th and 20th centuries" University of Stirling news archive
1911 not found in census  
1921 no occupation (crippled); visiting with his parents in 10 rooms at Backworth Lodge, Backworth; a young woman also visiting RG 15/25517 RD559 SD4 ED4 SN239
1939-09-29 not found in 1939 Register 1939 England and Wales Register (RG 101)
1955-11-18 of the Royal Scottish National Institution, Larbert, Stirlingshire, Scotland; d. National Probate Calendar
1956-02-18 admon at Newcastle-upon-Tyne to Erica Grubb (wife of David Burlingham Grubb); effects £1468 1s. 3d.


04. Max Thompson Spence

cal 1887-10 b. Cramlington, Northumberland GRO index; censuses
1891 living at Backworth Cottage, Backworth, Northumberland, with his family, a governess, a nursemaid, a cook, and his visiting aunt Mary E. Spence TNA: RG 12/4234 f68 p4
1898/1901 of Newcastle-upon-Tyne; at Ackworth School Edgar Barron Collinson (1931) List of the Boys and Girls Admitted into Ackworth School from . . . 1879 to the end of 1930. Ackworth
1901 scholar, of Ackworth School, Ackworth, Yorkshire RG 13/4308 f186 p9
1901-07-24 among the mourners at the funeral of John Foster Spence, at Preston Cemetery, Tynemouth Shields Daily Gazette, 1901-07-25
1902-04-29 of North Shields; d. Backworth GRO index; Annual Monitor
1902-05-01 bur. Preston cemetery, North Shields, Walton Avenue, North Shields, NE29 9NJ; with a headstone Billion Graves


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